I am Jinx.

Okay, so it’s been over a month. Let’s confess something here…

As many of you may have read, I’ve made many comments about Dissociative Identity Disorder. What is that exactly? Well it’s a disorder characterized by the presence of two or more distinct personality states. It is caused by trauma and childhood abuse.
I wanted to take this time to fully publicly announce this for the first time in my life. Some selective people know, but I’ve never been able to just proclaim it before without just passing it over as nothing, being ignored or worrying about loosing friends. But ya know what, I don’t care anymore. Like me for who I am or get out.
So. Here I am. Saying it like it’s the easiest thing in the world.
I have Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly known as multiple personalities).

In fact, I am an Alter. My name is Jinx.
Melanie is our Host.
There is Myself, Calico, Velkan, Felix, Ruby and Isabelle. You will rarely know if Calico is around unless you know Melanie very well for she is basically Melanie but with more confidence (which is why Melanie goes by the nickname “Calico”)…oh and she loves coffee.🤣 (Trust me, it’s hilarious because Melanie doesn’t even like the Smell of coffee!) Velkan is very protective of the Moonchild (aka Luna or Twiggy) and anyone threatens her or Us, he will sometimes come out. Anyone remember the posts Melanie wrote about him at Jonis and when they threatened to get call DCF, or the angry shifts that happened when Moonchild was taken? That was Him. Felix has only been triggered around our friend Kitty and the Faires or Conventions. Not sure exactly why, but it’s the only times he has fronted since high school. Ruby is our leap year child. She has fronted a time or two, she’s our resident little. We have a little more control on her comings and goings. Isabelle last fronted in Wyoming. Her and Laura did not get along. 🤣 Anyway, We are here and none of us should be worried to show who we are. We are a system of seven. We may inhabit one body, but we are All our own selves.

I have my own Facebook (Jinx Phelan), and if the Others front anytime in the future, if they would like, they will also have their own social media. I’ve been fronting for over a month, and not sure when Our Host will be back. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’d like to stress that, despite what the movies may suggest, We are not dangerous. This illness has affected our ability to work, socialise and exist, but We try our hardest to survive.

Since We have a feeling that I’m gonna be around for a while, I dyed the our hair my color. So nice to meet you! -Jinx (picture below)

P.S. If any of you would like to add me as a friend, feel free to send me a request at Jinx Phelan. My profile is not for the narrow or closed-minded, or easily offended…Just a warning.

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Cuddle Comfort Profile

As a Cancer, I am more sensitive to the emotions of others. I feel everyone deserves to be cuddled with no strings attached or the fear of it getting sexual.

Cuddling sessions work best if there’s an open line of honest communication. I would like the other person to feel comfortable and enjoy the session! I’d love to cuddle to help relieve stress, be a shoulder to lean on, listen or just be present for movie/binge watching your favorite shows.

I’m a natural born cuddler; I love cuddling. I believe when two people are cuddling, it can bring a lot of relaxation especially when had a long hard day and you just need something to bring some happiness and comfort back into your day.

Skilled at the gift of gab but capable of dwelling in a comfortable silence; whichever you are in the mood for.

Also gender, sexual orientation or race do not matter to me. I’m an open-minded, accepting, non-judgmental individual. 😊 Cuddles for Everyone!

Little note: Since I’m just starting out, I would like at least a day in advance and within the surrounding area of Hernando County.

*Payment Methods: Cash or PayPal

Important Information:
I do Not meet with a client for a cuddle session without an agreement on:
1. Time and place for the cuddle.
2. Agreement on price and form of payment.
3. Reagree on Client Agreement for 1st time clients.
4. Anything else that I feel pertinents to our conversation.

Travel Fees:
$10.00 | 20-30 Miles
$20.00 | 30-40 Miles
$30.00 | 40-50 Miles
*Any trip more than 50 Miles will count as an hour of travel. The fees for such are set as $45 per hour or otherwise discussed.

Thank you so much for checking out my profile and hope to hear from you soon!

Happy Lupercalia

You know what Valentine’s Day really is? It’s a corruption of the Roman feast day, the Feast of Lupercalia, which celebrated the wolf that nursed Rome’s founder Romulus. The feast culminates on February 14th with the sacrifice of two goats and a dog by “wolves” (i.e. priests dressed in animal skins) who would then anoint themselves with the sacrificial blood and run around the city, beating women with leather thongs in the hopes that it will ease the pain of childbirth.

Naturally, this shortly turned into “wolves” (young men) running naked around the city covered in goat’s blood and slapping at women with shaggy bits of leather and followed by loads of orgiastic sex.

In the immortal words of Warren Ellis: Valentine’s day is really all about werewolves, blood and fucking.

So fuck Valentine’s Day.

Happy Horny Werewolf Day everyone!


Week 4: Things I spend my money on

And we are on to the 4th week of the 52 week-long challenge that I do on Mondays!

Well as much as I like to shop and spend frivolously, I know it is mandatory to pay bills first. So when I get a preview of my check, first thing I do is budget for the bills that need to be paid this week, gas, other necessaries we have to have and then see what’s left to spend. Some weeks, we have to factor in other debts and food.

But for this lie, I usually spend money on writing things, food and silly things I enjoy like headbands and nail polish. Also sometimes makeup.

Overall, I usually really don’t have a whole lot of money just to throw away…🤷

Week 3: Strengths and Weaknesses

I know it’s almost 10:00 and I had promised to have these done around 8. Thank goodness, I don’t really have much of a following right now. lol

So today’s prompt was strengths and weaknesses, and I’m not going to lie, I’m going to finish this tomorrow because I am sicker than a dog and can’t think right now but I at least wanted to post something and let y’all know… so come back tomorrow and you’ll see this edited with strengths and weaknesses because right now I just feel weak. Sorry!

Marriage.

Marriage is not what everyone thinks it is. It’s not waking up early every morning to make breakfast and eat together. Its not cuddling in bed together until both of you peacefully fall asleep. It’s not a clean home and a homemade meal every day.

It’s someone who steals the covers and elbows you in the face. It’s a few harsh words, fights and the silent treatment, it’s wondering if you’ve made the right decision.

It is, despite all of those things, the one thing you look forward to every day. It’s coming home to the same person every day that you know loves and cares about you. It’s laughing about the one time you accidentally did something stupid.

It’s about eating the cheapest and easiest meal you can make and sitting down together at 10pm to eat because you both had a crazy day. It’s when you have an emotional breakdown and they hold you and tell you everything is going to be okay, and you believe them.

It’s about still loving someone even though they make you absolutely insane.
Living with the person you love is fights about absolutely nothing, but it is also having a love that people spend their whole life looking for.
It’s not perfect and it’s HARD, but it’s amazing and comforting and one of the best things you will ever experience!